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Funny, women “say” they want these things but do they really go “for” them or “after” them….Unfortunately as I get older I get more cynical and from my observations and interactions I have found that women more than not end up with “children” rather than a “real man”….now is this because of availability, desperation or just giving up? Good questions….

“Why can’t you just make eye contact with people on the train, or smile back at people if they smile at you? Where is all the human connection in this city?”

I ask myself the same question since I came from my Country 8 years ago. I’m glad I’m not the only one noticing this. And I assume this girl is american, even worse!

guys get berated by so many unfriendly, standoffish girls that they shy away.

Rhom, yes, women do go “for” and “after” these things. The PU community is funny. When you hear women saying that they want sensitive men who talk about their feelings, you tell us that we don’t know what we want. When we say that we want someone more masculine and dominant as this ad is saying, again, this is met with skepticism as we are told that we don’t know what we want.

Women end up with what you call “children” because there are very few men out there who project a masculine, dominant energy and who are as secure and confident in themselves as they attempt to seem. We end up with “children” because it’s often the best we can do nowadays. There are so many jerks and idiots running around trying to act tough and manly that finding someone who actually projects a balanced masculine, dominant, confident energy and an energy of total security with who he is and what he wants is close to impossible nowadays. Guys think they have to act like insensitive assholes to appear tough, when in reality it just portrays their insecurity. We end up with “children” because there are so few of you who are “adults”.

Oribi,

you’re making this very personal. But talking about insecurity; the majority is. This means women too, they are no exception. Sometimes I am under the impression that women are more often insecure with regard to survivability (e.g. 10.000 years ago a strong masculine man came in handy) and this feeling still lives on.

Anyway. Instead of throwing out all your frustrations here on a blog post very few Boston guys will read, why not help these guys out ‘on the street’ and give them tips to become more confident. Or do the approaching yourself. That, or move to another city.