Lay Reports, Lifestyle, Logistics - Tuesday, July 14, 2009 9:12 - 3 Comments

LR (3some): Figuring Out Tandem Sarging

So my girlfriend (if you don’t know, dating for almost 2 years, completely bi) has gotten on a big threesome kick recently. Not sure where it came from, but I’m not about to discourage it.

As a result she and I have started tandem sarging regularly for the first time. We had done it before, but we never really took it seriously or pushed very far. But recently, she’s gotten hooked on it. She’s started experiencing that same emotional rollercoaster between approaches, rejections, phone numbers and flakes… and she’s hooked. She gets it. She gets why we spend so much time on this, and she finally gets why getting laid for us is such a big deal.

Pretty cool.

Anyway, we’ve been tandem sarging a bit and she and I feel like we’ve finally hammered down our “process.” It took a while, some successes and a lot of failures, but we think we “got” it… or at least what works for us. I’m sure a lot of other couples can and would do it differently.

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