Attraction, Mailbag, PUA Theory, Relationships - Friday, April 3, 2009 13:53 - 0 Comments

Mailbag! (4/3/09)

Another week, another mailbag. This week’s mailbag is that of “guys with problems we all wish we had.” As always, post your questions in the comments section here or email them to entropy@practicalpickup.com, pick up related or not.

I totally agree with you that being physically imposing can be a big drawback once it comes to kino’ing. Being 6′, 220 lbs. at only 5% bodyfat, I get lots of looks and compliments from girls, and well honestly, gay guys and bisexuals too, on how I dress or how I look, but I have trouble escalating on sets that I open myself (as opposed to the ones who come to me) for the reasons you described. Do you have any tips on how to escalate as someone whose advantages are always getting in his way?

- Anonymous

OK, everyone all together now, “Aww, you’re too good looking, YOU POOR MOTHERFUCKER!”

There, now that we got that out of the way. The answer to your question is easy, based on the rules of passive/active attraction (which I lay out in the “Personalizing Pickup” series).

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