Other, Social Circle - Written by Entropy on Saturday, August 9, 2008 17:24 - 5 Comments

Random Observation

Speaking of hanging with old college friends, I’ve noticed a weird trend. An alarming number of girls I hooked up with in college have de-friended me on Facebook in the last year or so. And these weren’t stupid ONS’s either, these were like long-term FB’s and MLTR’s.

Which brings me to another question… why would you ever de-friend someone on Facebook? I understand people lose touch and many people on there weren’t ever really friends to begin with, but you met every single one at some point. I have tons of people friended who I don’t even remember who they are or how I know them. But I don’t de-friend them. There’s no point. That takes too much thought and effort.

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Andy
Aug 10, 2008 2:02

Think of it as symbolic in nature. They probably got a new, serious boyfriend and wanted to feel like they were cleaning their slate by defriending you.

John Galt
Aug 12, 2008 11:36

It doesn’t sound like this applies in your situation, but I de-friend people if I don’t care about them any more AND they tend to have a lot of updates that clutter up my home page.

Harold
Aug 14, 2008 10:35

Cool, an objectivist? Is your blog closed or something?

Public Service
Sep 25, 2008 7:38

Ever think it may be a last ditch effort to get you to notice them again?

Chupacabra
Jan 7, 2009 16:41

i’ve defriended random community guys or people who were full of drama.

other than that, the one girl who made it a point to defriend me was sooo into me before i lost interest in her it was fucking ridicilous. 2 mo after i lost interest in her replied to a 2 month old email from me out of the blue and claimed she’d “met the love of her life and i shouldn’t try to contact her.” totally transparent. anyway sounds like a similar situation; she’s trying to put her past behind her – or get attention in the process.

girls are weirdos.

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