We’re rounding out the entire Night Game Model series now. If you’ve been following it so far, you know how to scope a venue and open, how to transition and cold read to start a thread, and then how to cycle between teasing and comfort stories. We then covered how to calibrate the amount of attraction and comfort you run and I even provided some examples. Today, we’re going to talk about escalation and then I’ll wrap up the series with the last part on logistics and closing.

Ideally, the purpose of this series is to condense the massive amounts of theory out there into one easy-to-follow roadmap. The idea here is efficiency and simplicity.

With that said, a lot has been written about physical escalation (or what’s commonly referred to as ‘kino’). It’s a universal skill that every guy needs to become successful with women.

Unlike day game, in night game you should always be touching. You should touch lightly on the opener, touch the girl as you flirt with her, push her away when you tease, pull her back in when you compliment her, etc. These days there are a few “models” or school that have included an “escalation ladder.” The idea is, as you go up the ladder, you do each kino move until she reciprocates or accepts it, and then you try the next one. They typically go like this:

- Lightly touch shoulder or arm
- Hand on back, light hug, push/pull
- Arm around her
- Kiss her
- Grab ass, kiss neck
- Grab tits, rub pussy through pants

From there you can probably figure the rest out. If at any time she stops you or doesn’t reciprocate, you go back one step and build some more attraction and/or comfort.

Isolating her is a key move as far as building compliance and getting her more comfortable with you. For most girls, it’s bad form to make out or be all over a random guy in front of their friends. So typically, if I get to step two on the escalation ladder and she’s responding positively, I’ll isolate her then and keep going. Good places to isolate: to the bar, to a couch or table, outside to smoke a cigarette, etc.

When to kiss? Generally, if I’ve isolated a girl and I’ve escalated to having my arm somewhat around her and she’s not moving away or she’s leaning into me, I go for the kiss. I don’t have any fancy lines or triple-lux backflip I do. Sometimes I’ll even interrupt her mid-sentence and say, “Hold on one second,” and kiss her then. Other times I’ll just look her straight in the eye and say, “I really want to kiss you.” If she blushes or gets embarrassed, I just go for it. Girls who don’t want to kiss you will take a step back.

A lot of guys get confused to how kino fits into the whole picture along with building attraction/comfort, etc. Again, just as I mentioned attraction and comfort should be going on at the same time, physical escalation should as well. In fact, they’re all kind of different sides of the same coin, so to speak. For instance, as the set goes on:

Attraction: Your jokes and bantering should be getting more and more sexual in nature. (Verbal escalation)
Comfort: Your conversation topics should be getting deeper and more personal. (Emotional escalation)
Physical: You should be physically be getting closer and more intimate. (Physical escalation)

If I was lame, I’d do an audio course on my “three-pronged escalation model” or something else dumb. But instead, I’ll just put it here because there’s not much else to say. Your jokes should be getting more sexual, your conversations should be getting deeper, your bodies should get closer, all at once. It’s all happening at once.

Ideally, once you’ve been kissing and making out for awhile, and maybe you’ve even gotten a nice ass or tit grab, if the attraction is still high, if she feels really comfortable around you, she’ll be ready to go home with you (or you with her), which will be the topic of the last insallment: logistics and closing.