Comments on: Mailbag: Escalation and Social Circles http://www.entropypua.com/blog/mailbag-escalation-and-social-circles Sarge Smarter, Not Harder Thu, 30 Sep 2010 12:49:27 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Leo http://www.entropypua.com/blog/mailbag-escalation-and-social-circles/comment-page-1#comment-745 Leo Thu, 28 May 2009 07:11:33 +0000 http://www.entropypua.com/blog/?p=897#comment-745 "Again, the disadvantage of being good-looking is that women are going to be slower to trust you and think that you say this shit to every girl. You’re much more likely to come off as a “player” and often they have to feel like they earned your affection. This is why the more natural (passive) attraction you have, the less you need to build (active attraction)." Does this mean that you should be more persistent than the regular guy when you are trying to get a date from the girl? is she gonna make it harder for you to get a date with her? Should you play along with her games and understand that she's just trying to know if you are really interested about her? Or you shouldn't jump through the hoops anyway? I think that when you jump through her hoops you really lose value, but how about if the girl is gonna be slower to trust you 'cause you can come off as a 'player"? “Again, the disadvantage of being good-looking is that women are going to be slower to trust you and think that you say this shit to every girl. You’re much more likely to come off as a “player” and often they have to feel like they earned your affection. This is why the more natural (passive) attraction you have, the less you need to build (active attraction).”

Does this mean that you should be more persistent than the regular guy when you are trying to get a date from the girl? is she gonna make it harder for you to get a date with her?
Should you play along with her games and understand that she’s just trying to know if you are really interested about her? Or you shouldn’t jump through the hoops anyway? I think that when you jump through her hoops you really lose value, but how about if the girl is gonna be slower to trust you ’cause you can come off as a ‘player”?

]]> By: Leo http://www.entropypua.com/blog/mailbag-escalation-and-social-circles/comment-page-1#comment-574 Leo Mon, 20 Apr 2009 04:50:22 +0000 http://www.entropypua.com/blog/?p=897#comment-574 Hey Mark! A friend of mine told me that if a woman hits on you and you take her telephone number instead of scalate at the moment, she can feel rejected. You think this is true? Women are hitting on me lately and I still ask for the telephone number instead of scalate hard at the moment. Thanks, Leo. Hey Mark! A friend of mine told me that if a woman hits on you and you take her telephone number instead of scalate at the moment, she can feel rejected. You think this is true? Women are hitting on me lately and I still ask for the telephone number instead of scalate hard at the moment. Thanks, Leo.

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