but what if shes hawt?

There are a million hot women out there with high self esteem who won’t give you a headache every other day.

Quality isn’t all physical.

I’m interested in this topic. It would cool to hear your thoughts on how to spot a woman with high self esteem as it’s not always so clear cut. For example, an ex of mine was high in confidence and low in self-esteem. It’s a paradox I’ve seen quite a bit.

How early can you detect a woman with low self-esteem?

Btw def agree with you! Staying with such a woman can bring a man down in more ways than he can imagine!

Interesting, as some PUA tactics seem to target women with lower self-esteem. Also, I’ve never met this mystical beast you talk about that is a woman with completely high self-esteem. It seems to me that most of us are just insecure about different things. A very hot woman may be un-neggable about her looks, but crumble if you poke even lightly at her inability to balance a checkbook.